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What to write in a message to a girl on a hookup site

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Contacting a total stranger for the first time especially one who might date you is a high-pressure situation. And we all know the pain of matching with somebody hot, and then screwing up right away — you get all excited about your potential dream girl, and then you get rejected.

The first thing you need is a selection of solid openers. Take them instead as your Tinder opener inspirationsand put your own twist on them or try something entirely new.

Never just say “hey” or...

Those on Tinder looking for a hookup rather than a date or a relationship might find themselves pretty frustrated swiping around in the dark with no idea about their matches' sexual interests. If that's you, consider one of these hookup sites instead.

Looking for some no-strings-attached action?

FriendFinder-X is an X-rated hookup site where you can express your steamy desires proudly and without shame. Got a specific kink or fetish? XMatch might just be the hookup site for you. It lets you state what you're into — and search for what other people are into. On top of that, XMatch boasts a sizeable number of active members who are anything but shy. AdultFriendFinder features a massive user base and easy connections, so you can arrange hookups or jump right into cyber sex. The site caters to all kinds of sexual desires and members are forthcoming about what they're looking for — so there's no need to worry about matching with someone and discovering you don't have anything in common later on.

It pays to be funny. However, I would recommend against straightforward flattery.